About
The “Let’s Hear It For the Man of the Yr” Pattern is a TikTok development set to Lorde’s “Man of the Yr” during which contributors, often ladies, present a video or picture of their ex-partner mistreating them after Lorde sings, “Let’s hear it for the person of the yr.” The development was popularized on TikTok in early June 2025 and garnered viral unfold that month, inspiring media consideration.
Origin
On June fifth, 2025, TikToker @violetaylaa posted a video of herself set to “Man of the Yr” by Lorde, captioned, “my man of the yr is my ex who obtained mad at me when he cheated on me,” garnering over 2.1 million views in six days. This might be thought-about the earliest recognized video to make use of the music as a approach of calling out a person for being poisonous in a relationship.
@violetaylaa
Unfold
The development continued to unfold over the next days as TikTokers started attaching proof of their poisonous previous relationships to their movies.
For instance, on June seventh, 2025, TikToker @unicornrainbowsparkles14 posted a model of the development during which they share a textual content purportedly from their ex, the place he justifies hitting her, garnering over 4.3 million views in 4 days.
That day, TikToker @peee.bee posted a video to the development captioned, “MAN OF THE YEAR!! obtained me pregnant at freshly 20 yrs outdated. promised me all the pieces. left me a month after discovering out. blocked me and everybody I do know on all the pieces. obtained with a brand new lady. and nonetheless does not care the way it all impacts me or his child,” garnering over 11 million views in 4 days.
@peee.bee hope shes value lacking out on all of those moments with ur first little one😛😛😛 #fyp #foryoupage #pregnant #deadbeatdad ♬ Man Of The Yr – Lorde
On June ninth, TikToker @.avery.claire.person posted a model of the development the place she shares an EDM music that her ex-boyfriend purportedly made out of a voice memo of her crying, garnering over 7.2 million views in two days. That day, the @PopCrave X account reported on the development, garnering over 7,400 likes in the identical span of time.
@.avery.claire.person he cheated, i broke up with him after which he proceeded to make a edm music to a crying voicemail males are simply nice 🙂
On June tenth, 2025, TikToker @itsaverynicole posted a model of the development during which she shares voice notes from her ex-boyfriend crying for her to not depart him, writing within the description, “throw again to when i threatened to depart my ex after him dishonest on me with a person 😛” garnering over 1.2 million views in a day.
@itsaverynicole throw again to when i threatened to depart my ex after him dishonest on me with a person 😛
Varied Examples
@hayhayshanaenae beautiful 😂 #foryoupage #secretaccount #trending #fyp ♬ Man Of The Yr – Lorde
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